The female reproductive system is delicate but also strong. It is complex but also simple to understand. The mixture of opposites is what makes the system so perfect. However, at the same time, the complexities can cause issues and ailments. Some of them are minor and easily treated. Others may require in-depth diagnosis and treatment. In all cases, the earlier any gynecological issues are treated, the faster and more complete the recovery. Across the world, and often especially in India, many women are shy about discussing their personal (female) medical issues with doctors. One reason for this is that they often think that the health issues they face are simply part of “being a woman”. This is a big mistake. There is no such thing as a medical ailment, of any kind, being normal. Another factor that works against good gynecological health is the secrecy that women feel must surround their health issues, especially gynecological ones.
It is most important for women to understand that being open and comfortable while discussing gynecological problems with their doctors is the vital first step in treating the problem and ensuring ongoing good health. That said, here are just a few of the most common gynecological health concerns that women hesitate to discuss with their gynecologists.
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- Menstrual Pain: For many women, the days of their periods are so painful and uncomfortable that it affects their overall physical and mental health as well as their normal daily activities and relationships. While cramps, breast soreness and headaches are common problems, if the pain and discomfort are acute, it could be a sign of a medical issue such as uterine fibroids or endometriosis. Whatever the reason, suffering in silence is pointless when there are remedies that can ease the pain and discomfort.
- Vaginal Odour: Any discussion of body odour can be embarrassing since it is often associated with matters of personal hygiene. This is especially true for the vaginal region. Some amount of odour is normal but if it changes, or increases in intensity or if the odour remains for longer periods of time, it could be an indication of bacterial growth or infection. This may not be a hygiene issue and talking to your doctor about the problem can prevent it from developing into something more serious.
- Discomfort During Intercourse: One of the biggest misconceptions about sex is that when women feel pain or discomfort during intercourse it is because they are not doing the “right things”. There are many reasons for the pain and discomfort and speaking about the problem openly with your gynecologist means that the problem can be diagnosed and treated so that you may lead a happy and active sexual life.
- Hiding Sexual History: One of the biggest problems doctors face is getting patients to be open and honest about their sexual history. While sexual urges and activity are normal, social norms, conventions and traditions make it difficult for women to discuss their sexual history. Whether it is about the number of partners, sexual orientation or gender identity, many women feel that this is too personal a subject to discuss, even with a doctor. It is only when a gynecologist knows a patient’s sexual history that the risk factors for diseases, infections and potential psychological problems can be identified and steps taken to treat existing issues that may have their roots in the past. When a doctor asks about sexual history, it is covered under the policy of doctor-patient confidentiality so your privacy is protected.
- Urinary or Fecal Leakage: Incontinence can be another subject that is embarrassing to discuss. It is a medical issue just like any other and unless the doctor is told about the nature and extent of the problem, diagnosis and treatment will not be possible. There are many reasons why this condition could arise. Among the most common is childbirth, especially if the baby is large or the delivery has been complicated. Mild cases of incontinence can become worse when a woman enters menopause. There are several medical or surgical treatments for the condition and living with the embarrassment of incontinence can be avoided.
- Low Level of Sexual Desire: This is a problem that affects both men and women. The embarrassment in discussing the issue is because of a widely held misconception that the problem is because a person is not male or female enough. There are many causes for this condition, ranging from side-effects of medication to it being a symptom of an underlying medical condition. The pressures of life, relationship problems or the behaviour of a partner could all affect the intensity of libido. It is only by discussing the problem with a gynecologist that the cause can be determined and steps taken to remedy the situation.
It is normal to be shy or reticent about private and personal matters. But when it comes to your health, honest and clear communication with your doctor is the foundation on which your diagnosis, treatment and recovery will be built. Your gynecological health is the same as other aspects of your well-being. Just as there is no embarrassment in discussing a painful knee with an orthopedic specialist, there should be no shyness in discussing health issues with your gynecologist.
Good gynecological health is an important aspect of overall health and wellness. Being shy or hesitant to discuss problems with your doctor is a mistake. It could cause needless pain and discomfort which your gynecologist could easily treat. In case the ailment is more serious or affects other parts of the body, the earlier it is diagnosed and treatment begun, the better the recovery. A multispecialty hospital with a world-class gynecology department and the best specialists is the best place to go to for not just diagnosis and treatment of any ailments, but also for getting the regular scheduled gynecological checkups that will help spot any potential problems in the early stages and enable treatment to begin before the condition reaches an advanced stage.
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Not discussing what may appear to be personal or embarrassing issues with your gynecologist because of shyness can restrict his or her ability to provide you with the treatment you need.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Why should I not be shy about discussing gynecological issues?
Being open helps ensure early diagnosis and proper treatment, improving your overall health.
2. What common gynecological issues should I discuss with my doctor?
Talk about menstrual pain, vaginal odor, discomfort during intercourse, incontinence, and low sexual desire.
3. How does discussing my sexual history help my gynecologist?
It allows your doctor to assess risk factors and provide the right treatment while keeping your information confidential.
4. Is it normal to experience severe menstrual pain?
While mild pain is common, severe pain might signal a condition like fibroids or endometriosis that needs attention.
5. What should I do if I experience urinary or fecal leakage?
Discuss these issues with your gynecologist promptly to explore effective treatments and improve your quality of life.
6. How can I overcome my shyness when discussing personal health issues?
Remember that your gynecologist is a professional who respects your privacy—open communication is key to better care.